The breakthrough moment… is that moment when you come up against everything that IS possible… and you either choose it (even if it is REALLY uncomfortable) or you back away, hiding amongst the excuses that have kept you from going beyond it in the past.
How many times have you almost got there, only to stop yourself? Is it time to stop it… or do you love stopping you?
Are any of these scenarios familiar to you?
“I know I can do this, but before I do, I just need to…..(insert big thing that is your current ‘unsolvable obstacle’ here)…..”
“I would love to do this, but I’m just going to….. (insert small, unimportant list of busy work here)…..”
“I am procrastinating because I am not ready, I need to learn….. (insert your personal ‘less than’ comparison to as many guru’s in your industry as you can find here)…..”
“I know this is really important, but I have to do my client work first… (insert long list of client work and excuses for not working ON your business here)…..”
“I can’t. I am afraid of….. (insert your favourite set of fears and doubts that you use to distract yourself from moving forward here)…..”
I have coached hundreds of people in getting over the personal limitation that is stopping them from breaking through to creating what they truly desire – in business and beyond.
And here’s the thing… it’s never about needing more, learning more or doing more or waiting for something else to show up first.It’s always about BEING more!
Sound crazy? Here’s how it works. How many people do you know who are ‘wasting their potential’? You know it, everyone around them knows it, in most cases they know it too. And they are as frustrated as hell about it.
If this is you, there is a really simple solution. You make the demand of yourself that this changes NOW. That you aren’t going to listen to your brilliant but oh so limiting excuses anymore. You are going to take the action that will move you forward in leaps and bounds, rather than going round in circles.
And then you do it. Not from the space of doubt, lack or fear; but from the space of “I’m kick-ass and I’m going to rock this! What do I need to be or do different that will allow me to create this with ease?” Notice that being this energy puts a totally different spin on what’s possible?
That’s what I’m talking about when I say BE more. The truth is, you don’t need to be anything other than what you truly be. If you stop ‘wasting your potential’ you’ll make a much greater demand of yourself to deliver beyond your excuses.
You are ready. There is no better time. You know enough. You are more than enough. Go be everything you can be! Your life (and business) will have so much more ease when you embrace and acknowledge your true capacities rather than pretending they don’t exist. What could you play with today, that would change all possibilities with ease? It takes courage. And it’s SO worth it!
How do I know what to do with this particular entrepreneurs dilemma? I’ve been there – stopping myself by most of the options above and then some… and I’m not allowing myself to be pathetic or side-tracked anymore. Just so you know… You’re not alone here. AND also know there is a greater possibility available! Are you demanding it?
If you’d like some more tools for going beyond your breakthrough moment, you can contact Lisa Murray for a personal Breakthrough Session or listen in to her free New Energies of Business show on Blog Talk Radio.